Wednesday, September 26, 2007

And yet another reason to post today

Beginnings and endings. Starts and stops. Don't get me started. Start your engines. Start button. Start spreading the news ...

Exploration of a single word can cause profound results. In this case, it's another social networking, blogging exercise in support of writers - to get them going on something - this something is a word. The word for this week is START.

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A few months back, when I was working on a project with a PM, I was told "Words don't matter". Every once in a while I trot out this gem to tease him with his own words. The irony is that words do matter.

The child hood rhyme:

Sticks and stones will break my bones
But names will never hurt me.


is so completely and utterly WRONG.

Verbal abuse is insidious and vicious. While leaving no visible marks, it can cut a person's psyche. I witnessed the children's version while watching the first few minutes of CU-2's dance class role out. A kid was being teased about his name, which ordinarily enough, like Bob, has a longer version as he put it. He liked the short version and didn't want to be known by the more formal. The kids picked on him by refusing to accept his preference, and even tried to involve the teacher in on their play. And so it starts.

2 comments:

Jonathan Beckett said...

Thanks for taking a look at BlogFriday!

We're getting towards the end of the adoption process at the moment, so have had to read a lot of stuff about the behaviour of children, and surround ourselves with as many as possible to gain experience (thankfully we have a lot of friends and family with kids).

It's been an eye opening experience... kids have no problem telling things the way they see it.

Anonymous said...

I so agree, words can cut much deeper than a knife. A tongue lashing can leave scars, just like a whip, one might not see them but they are there.